01. Introduction
While we did not talk much about faith, it was the tie that bound us together over dinner. Thinking about our conversation that night reminds me that we are not all called to be the same type of Christian, and that’s okay. While pondering that, I remembered some words of seventeenth century mystic Isaac Penington:
[O]h, how sweet and pleasant it is to the truly spiritual eye to see the several sorts of believers, several forms of Christians in the school of Christ, every one learning their own lesson, performing their own peculiar service, and knowing, owning, and loving one another in their several places, and different performances to their Master, to whom they are to give an account, and not to quarrel with one another about their different practices. Rom. 14:4. For this is the true ground of love and unity, not that such a man walks and does just as I do, but because I feel the same Spirit and life in him, and that he walks in his rank, in his own order, in his proper way and place of subjection to that. And this is far more pleasing to me, than if he walked just in that track wherein I walk.An examination of the grounds and causes which are said to induce the Court of Boston, in New England, to make that order or law of banishment upon pain of death against the Quakers, 1659, pp. 83–84; repr in Isaac Penington, Works, 1681, part 1, p. 240; 1761 edn, vol. 1, pp. 320–321; 1784 edn, vol. 1, pp. 443–444.
Dinner that night was just one example of how I am blessed to “see the several sorts of believers, several forms of Christians in the school of Christ” throughout my life.
02. A Motley Crew
Religiously speaking, my friends comprise a motley crew. One is a Lutheran who used to be Quaker. Then there’s the Quaker who used to be Lutheran. And the United Methodist who was raised Southern Baptist. The Southern Baptist convert to Judaism. There are Episcopalians, Nazarenes, Jews, non-denominational folk, and on and on.
Besides our many theological differences, we also live out our faith in different ways. Some of us believe in just war; others are pacifists. Some are pro-life; others pro-choice. We have all sorts of differences—politically, socially, culturally. Each difference, based in faith, is potentially divisive.
Or potentially instructive. Through my friends, I’ve quickly learned that every one of them feels called to follow God. Each of their spirits—like mine—is hungry for the Divine.
And so I’ve chosen to learn the ways of faith from them. Listening to them talk about faith and watching them practice theirs teaches me new ways of hearing Scripture, of praying, of talking about and relating to God. Observing in this open, non-judging way helps me unplug my ears and opens my mind to the idea that there is just might be more than just one right way (mine!) to be faithful.
By listening with love and attention, my friends and I have come to respect the stories we’ve heard and the people who told them. This respect grows from faith in God and faith in the people who are our friends. Listening has taught me that all of them love God as much as I do. Even those who look or talk (religiously and ethnically) different from me.