How Might the Spiritual Formation Community Respond?

Alan Falding Part 14 of 20

In twenty years of training Christian leaders in leadership development rooted in spiritual formation, we at The Leadership Institute have learned that the negative perception of Christians is an unfortunate result of professed but unpracticed faith. Even Christians affirming spiritual formation ideas may be little changed unless they engage in spiritual formation practices.

For example, the regular practice of solitude and silence coupled with prayer has become a place of deep transformation, producing hypocrisy’s opposite—integrity. Hypocrisy is a dissonance between profession and practice. In regular solitude, God uncovers our pretending, our appearance managing, and our malformed images of Him. More genuine communion with God develops a growing likeness to Him in us.

The practice of lectio divina as an engaging of mind, heart, and will with the text of Scripture changes the spirits of individual Christians and their communities. Instead of engaging Scripture only to establish accurate Christian thinking and beliefs, lectio engages the whole person, provoking a willing response to holy invitations God extends to us. Scripture becomes the living and active word God intends it to be.

Practices of fasting, hospitality, and service help us learn to empathize and respond in love to another. Practicing the way of Christ is what makes Christians attractive to skeptical onlookers.

As we develop transforming spiritual formation groups and processes, we need to provide opportunities actually to engage in spiritual formation practices in the midst of our time together. In training the disciples, Jesus actually practiced disciplines such as prayer, solitude, supportive community, praying psalms, and waiting on God. He provided intentional opportunities to lead his followers in a way of life. His teaching helped explain to them what they were experiencing, but he invited them to a way of living more than to a system of thought. This is how the practices of spiritual formation can beautify the bride of Christ and make her more attractive  to others.

Alan Fadling serves as associate director of the Leadership Institute in Orange, CA, a ministry that trains Christian leaders to integrate spiritual formation and leadership development. through his daily blog, “Notes from my Journey” (, Alan shares insights from his ministry of spiritual direction, retreat leading and leadership training.  He lives in mission Viejo, CA, with his wife, Gem, and their three sons.
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